You are enough

Enjoy this exercise daily or often for better posture, happiness, confidence and success,

ideally do this exercise for 2 minutes for maximum benefits , join in here


Loved receiving this message from a client who is a staff nurse: ‘Fabulous wee exercise for the girls on night shift 🤗 thank you x’

How great is this. Lots of nurses joining in.
how do you feel after?

Love Bev

Beverley Densham BSc (Hons) Pilates teacher of 22 years

Reduce back pain and feel good with mindfulness pilates

Www.mindfulnesspilates.com

ps only join in if you’re injury free

1 way to improve your posture, happiness and success in 2 minutes

Something I learnt and discovered in recent years is the power of good posture, not just in your back and neck and reducing back pain, but also how effective it can be in helping with our happiness, success and self esteem too. There have been interesting studies on how having good posture can improve results for example in stressful job interviews, and those who succeed are more likely to have had good posture before the interview and just in life and work, career in general.

In this interesting Ted Talk by Psychologist Amy Cuddy, she shows and talks about the differences in two groups in the study, one group adopted a power pose (good posture), such as a wonder woman type pose for 2 minutes, others adopted a slouched (more miserable, not so good posture) prior to the interview. Those who had the better posture were more successful. It’s all so interesting. You can watch the Ted talk here:

She talks a lot about body language and asks questions like, 

how are you sitting or standing right now? 

Think of a runner winning a running race, they put their arms up in a V shape in  the air as they run across the finishing line when they’ve won the race.

When you’re happy and celebrating something, you might throw your arms up in the air or you naturally will adopt a better posture. When you feel not so good, your posture might become smaller, slumped. You never see someone crying and upset with good posture. So the fantastic winning posture makes you feel more powerful and happier. 

Ever since graduating from the University of Brighton with a degree in Sports Science, (a very long time ago now!!),

I’ve always had a fascination in research and how this can help you in your life, work, body and mind, have always found Psychology very interesting. 

In the wonderful book I love me ‘the science of self love’ by David Hamilton, it states that research studies have been carried out on how posture affects how we feel. In the book it states in a 2014 study by scientists at the University of Auckland (I lived there for a while!), they got the participants to sit in either a slumped or upright good posture, Those who sat upright reported higher self esteem than those who were slumping, they had more positive moods and lower fear. They even used more positive words and more effective. 

How interesting is that? So perhaps give it a go, join in todays little video of combining all of these power pose good posture movements which I’ve put into a mindfulness pilates improve your posture sequence for you. Enjoy it for 2 full minutes to get the full benefits. 

I love enjoying it out on a daily walk, even better add in the positive affirmation I am enough. Do this daily or anytime before a stressful situation to boost your confidence, simply feel happier or become more successful, you might be glad you did!.

Because ‘you are enough’

Love to hear how you get on

Love Bev 

Beverley Densham BSc (Hons)

Pilates teacher of 22 years 

Reduce back pain and feel good with mindfulness pilates 

Www.mindfulnesspilates.com 

Everyone knows someone who’s had a back problem, 1 way to feel better

Sadly this is the case, that we either have a back problem ourself or we know someone, whether it’s a friend, family or work colleague who has varying degrees of a back problem. The thing is, it isn’t something we have to continue to suffer with in the same way we are now, you can do something about it. A good first port of call is always seeing your Doctor and then either a Physiotherapist, Osteopath, Chiropractor or consultant. Yes it’s always a very good idea to have a diagnosis of what’s going on. This is important as then you can learn to do the best things for you and your body and back.

The thing is if you want to have clean, healthy teeth and fresh minty breath, you’ve got to brush your teeth properly and regularly. It’s the same with your back and body, it doesn’t just magically stay in shape and strong. If you do absolutely nothing for it, it will gradually become weaker and deteriorate, let alone any past accidents, work related postural strain or muscle imbalances and misalignments that have happened along the way.

For me back problems started from a very young age, I was over training as a young junior national squash player and I remember very well doing this fitness training with ‘Brian bomber harris’ with a medicine ball, doing fitness that I was probably too underdeveloped for and cross country running, one of my favourite things became oh so painful running up steep hills. I had to stop, and it became a vicious circle of going for treatments, scans, a few exercises, ok for a bit then it would re-cur again and again.

This went on and on and in Australia I finally found Pilates, something that I could help myself with, something that I could be empowered with, strengthen my body and back with. What a relief. But then a bad road traffic accident happened. I wasn’t defeated, I was alive and I made a fresh start, worked through the pain and re-habilitation and was grateful that it’s become an important, not just an important part of my life, but vital part. As much as brushing my teeth!! I can’t live without pilates, like a plaster it feels like it holds me together, I feel my back needs it, I’m grateful for the quality of life it gives me, no I don’t play squash anymore, attempt any more golf lessons or run too far.

But I can walk in beautiful nature, cycle and enjoy daily mindfulness Pilates, stand up paddleboarding in the summer and have fun in my life again. That’s a GIFT, a true gift. You can make the positive change too, it’s possible. I help motivate you on your journey. There’s always positive change waiting for you

Love Bev Beverley Densham BSc (Hons) Pilates teacher of 22 years

Reduce back pain with mindfulness pilates www.mindfulnesspilates.com

1 way to be mindful in lockdown

Gosh, lockdown is looming… (again), no I’m not about to start talking (for long) about the world situation in this weeks blog, I must admit after the weekends announcement in the UK about the next lockdown starting this week, I shed a few tears, I don’t even know why exactly. It lasted about 15 minutes, an immense sadness, not sure if I was just picking up on the world generally, the news.

But I must say I won’t be making a habit of watching the news regularly, yes being updated, but that’s enough. What I’ve done since is immersed myself in my life and work as it is right here and right now and I’ll tell you what. I am so very grateful for technology, it’s a wonderful way we can stay connected during these times both socially and with things like Pilates. I have a huge gratitude that technology such as zoom has allowed me to shift my business model to online, so this lockdown I’m not feeling stressed and anxious about all the work I lost, as I lost a lot of in person work last time, and the majority didn’t feel the fear and try out my work online, yet more and more are which is truly incredible.

I now teach mindfulness Pilates worldwide, in one class in my mindfulness Pilates membership, I have clients all over the UK, including my sister Julie in Bedfordshire UK, my Mum over 120 miles away in Hertfordshire, and other clients all over

Pic of me mum and sister Julie before lockdown (not at class!!)

Sara is in France

Debi is in Dorset UK

Ann is in Ireland

including France and Ireland. How amazing is that? the list goes on.

 What I find so special each time I see everyone is that we know we are in for an inspiring hour in time which goes very fast! Of course focusing on looking after your backs and always a big focus on reducing back pain and managing the back, hips and all sorts, but theres always a lovely atmosphere, 

I think bringing positive affirmations into every lesson really brings a sparkly difference as well as breathing.  

Breathe 

I can’t recommend breathing enough. We all breathe every second of every day and the thing is this, I think is one of the most relaxing things in the world to do, to take time out everyday to consciously breathe, relax and meditate, it’s pretty simple, just do it and take time to do it is the key really! Join in the 5 minute relaxation here

you deserve it:  I never get bored of that 5 minute relaxation, it’s one of my favourites. Hope it becomes one of your favourites too.  

So get off your work chair, take time for you in lockdown and beyond to keep fit in both body and mind, the thing I love about working on line is I get to gift my clients a recording of every class so they can easily practice inbetween their lessons, maintaining progress and also getting to enjoy mini 6 minute mindfulness Pilates on a daily basis makes such a huge difference, is achievable.

My sister calls me ‘motivator’. Why? Because I really do motivate you when you hang out with me as your teacher, I’m so glad I do. Yet you motivate me too, as showing up to teach you, helps my mental and emotional health in top shape, but of course I practice what I teach and practice myself everyday.

Thanks for listening this week!!   Do you read the blog?!! 

 A happy a week as possible to you 

 Love Bev

Beverley Densham BSc (Hons) Pilates teacher of 22 years www.mindfulnesspilates.com

Ps Want to learn? You’re invited to the Mindfulness Pilates membership

‪https://www.pilatestofeelgood.com/mindfulness-pilates-membership or go to the page

Also includes a 45 minute one to one before you start class 

My Mum age 80 can jog again

Want to know her secret? So my Mum Chris started jogging, at first she started jogging to the front door at home, she says:

‘I found that I could jog again, I could lift 2 feet off the floor! I’d not jogged in years. Then I jogged round the house. My husband Terry couldn’t believe it either. ‘

What enabled you to do that? ‘Well the mindfulness Pilates classes, I started with an hour a week and I now do 3 hours of classes a week with you as well as daily practice.’

You were struggling with your balance, walking up stairs and your hips sometimes painful before doing regular classes. How is your balance now?

‘I am practicing my balance in the kitchen, in the bathroom, anywhere and I don’t need to hold on anymore. I make sure I press my toes into the ground is a big help.’

As my Mum lives over 120 miles away she comes to my classes on zoom which is so lovely and I regularly ask what each client wants to work on and my Mums goal was to improve her balance and mobility, and within two weeks she is now out jogging every day!

She sends me and my sister Julie a little message with her latest achievement:

‘Good morning, great Pilates class followed by porridge, jog round the block and back, Alternating lampposts, jog and then walk. Coffee now, xxx’

How amazing is this? So proud. Not just because this is my Mum, but it shows you how you can improve where you’re at and sometimes achieve things you never dreamed were possible again.

AMAZING and well done

Love Bev
Beverley Densham Pilates teacher of 22 years To help you with your back

Me and mum! We even enjoyed pilates on her 80th birthday at the beach with my sister Julie, that was lovely.