5 Tips to Feel Good with Pilates

So, it might sound funny, but my favourite pair of gold gladiator sandals inspired this weeks blog!

Why? Well actually I really love wearing them in the summer, but what I hadn’t realised is that driving in them in heavy traffic, constantly putting my foot down on clutch in my manual car, not just caused pain in my toe on my left foot but also sciatica nerve pain down my left leg, so annoying as I’d just sorted out the previous bout of sciatica, it had been so nice feeling good again, and of course a big part of that is doing the right Pilates exercises. Yes I found it annoying to have to keep changing shoes in the car, am now back wearing my fitted autumn/ winter boots for driving as I need a lot more support when I’m driving I’ve discovered. Sometimes you have to adapt things, even if it may be inconvenient or boiling hot weather, humid and you simply want to wear your favourite sandals all the time. But it’s a choice isn’t it. A choice of feeling good or better, or a choice of pain. Quite an easy choice really. So this week in the five tips, it’s also a chance to look at your body and life as a whole and ask your self this question and tip:

Tip 1: Is there something you are currently doing in your life that is aggravating or hurting your body? 

(sit there with a notebook or piece of paper and a pen and write what comes to you.)

Tip 2: What can I do about this? What is the solution? How can I help myself? (sit there with a notebook or piece of paper and a pen and write what comes to you.)

I originally first hurt my back through overuse in sport at a young age, I was a national junior squash player & remember doing this squash fitness training with heavy medicine balls. (With an underdeveloped body), that was the beginning of the damage. Primary school age.

So as frustrating as it might be for me personally, I’ve just got to get on with it, do more of my heal from sciatica Pilates programme and incorporate as much Pilates into my lifestyle as possible to recover and wear those boots driving. (Also I don’t drive long distance as sitting long distance driving can aggravate some people’s discs & backs..) so I then tend to catch the train for long journeys as you can move more & walk inbetween stations.

Another thing happened this last week, I was teaching an advanced client and I got carried away demonstrating exercises I know are bad for me, the thing is, I know them inside out, upside down, obviously I’m qualified to teach them, however having a back that needs extra care and attention, having had past lumbar, low back prolapsed discs and moderate spinal stenosis (narrowing of the nerve root). So in the moment I just did, and I will be honest I regretted it a lot afterwards as it had made the sciatica worse, I know, I know, I should have known better. Certain Pilates exercises are contraindicated for ‘disc problem’ backs, and of course many exercises are excellent for it. There was no need for me to demonstrate those particular ones, the client already knew how to do them, so I could have just verbally talked it through. I will next time as I have to look after me and you have to look after you.

I’m being honest here as there may be things in your life where you’re ignoring your own health and wellbeing and not putting yourself first.

Tip 3: Ask yourself this question: Is this good for me? Keep this question in mind when you do different things during the week, exercise etc, (sit there with a notebook or piece of paper and a pen and write what comes to you.)

And to top it off I did one more stupid thing to aggravate my back this week, I was sitting at my laptop and I will be honest, I love crossing my legs sitting in a chair sometimes, but no, my nerves and back had other ideas. When I did this yesterday, crossing my right leg over my left, I got numbness in my toes and foot and that is not good at all, so I STOPPED IT, and it went away pretty quickly thank goodness. So here I am writing this to you with good posture, my back supported with a cushion behind my low back, feet hip width apart, feet under my knees, knees in line with my hips and sitting nice and tall with the natural curves of my spine. It’s like I have helium balloons through the top of my head. Do you think about how you sit & stand during the week?

Tip 4

Sit with good posture and don’t sit for too long!! (set regular alarms so you don’t sit down for too long, Ie set an alarm for every 30,45 minutes if at all possible then walk around and do some gentle stretches. My local chiropractor recommends this. – great neck stretches for you to do on my Pilates to feel good YOU Tube channel

Tip 5

Final tip of the week is go for a walk everyday

Today I went for a walk before work and its a wonderful way to start the day, before breakfast I do my Pilates, find the best way and time of day for you to do your Pilates.

I’m glad to say, Pilates is making me feel good again, step by step I’m feeling better. We can all keep imperfectly improving!! (a friend and fellow author Janey Lee Grace says this wonderful saying).

Have a wonderful week,

Love Beverley.

Retreat with Pilates

Pilates is liking going on a retreat every single lesson, you’re taking time for YOU, for your body & mind. It’s a place to de stress & unwind & BE, but a class for an hour can only help you relax & de stress so much & that’s where an actual weekend get away can really come in handy – to indulge in longer classes, more stretching, more relaxation, a time to really release your muscles & to tame that monkey mind, infuse your mind with positivity, calm & relaxation.

Combined with gentle back neck & shoulder massages, incredible tasty healthy food, energising juices, smoothies to invigorate you from the inside out I felt it was time to offer this time of essential back care, muscle care & it’s like an MOT & service for you.

We MOT our cars, but why not you too. You get more out of your Pilates when you take dedicated time out, you’re not rushing from work to the children or straight back on your I phone!! A little holiday from social media.

You get a chance to indulge in longer classes, deeper relaxation, small groups of maximum 6 clients on each retreat- retreats will be announced in the future.

  • Relax

  • Re-charge

  • Tone up

  • Release your muscles

  • Stretch your muscles

  • Strengthen your core

  • Strengthen your back

  • Improve your posture

  • Have fun

  • Make new friends

  • Learn how to incorporate Pilates into your lifestyle, practice easily at home & feel great

  • Improve your mood, happiness & energy levels

Perhaps you’ve been through some past or current big or small stress? Bereavement or injury, prolapsed disc or another form of injury, and want a retreat that can look after you properly. I would love to help & inspire you.

Pilates and how it can help you Mentally

I suffered from some bouts of painful depression lately, no I’m not talking about 22 years ago when I had suffered after a road traffic accident, but in 2019. It wasn’t all the time but came in waves. What was very noticeable was that when I was doing Pilates or teaching Pilates I was absolutely fine, in fact happy.

Now I’m no depression expert, however I really do believe that there is a strong link between good mental & emotional well-being & Pilates (just my opinion). Everyone seems to just come for their body, but Pilates is way more beneficial than that, it helps your mind too & definitely your happiness. Many clients have said they sleep better, are in a better mood & can cope with life much better even when some tough things are going on. Life’s not always easy so it’s nice that you can have this happy place to go to, but not just that then incorporate it into your lifestyle.

Of course there are different root causes of depression & it’s getting the right help, support & solutions with that. I knew the root cause & beavered away taking action to sort it out. & decided to really embrace Pilates to the fullest & my goodness I’m grateful as the happy Bev many of you love & know is back. Always talk to a trusted friends & family & seek professional support.

Thank you Pilates.

so my tip for you if you’re, stressed, anxious, depressed or under the weather is go do Pilates, book those lessons, we need to socialise too, even us introverts! & then practice. Practice daily!! Not just your exercises with your breathing but daily relaxation too, it makes such a difference.

When you’re upset, crying, feeling depressed you’ll notice your posture is poor, Pilates will help you re gain that confident happy posture. In one of my classes this week I said Pilates is like happy hour, it’s a happy place to go to and once you’ve discovered it, it’s there to help & support you everyday.

Love to hear feedback if my blog helps you. Hope it does (of course always seek medical support such as your GP if you are depressed), however you might find adding that holistic approach of Pilates exercise is the icing on the cake you’re looking for.

Tiredness & How Pilates Can Help

Sometimes you can feel too tired, in fact right now writing this I could have made the excuse that I’m too tired to write this weeks blog, true I did feel tired after 3 nights of not getting enough sleep so an early night is calling. However the amazing thing about Pilates is its great to do whether you have fatigue or tiredness, been overworking & not getting a work life balance.

By making the effort to go to your class or one to one, what I’ve noticed is that it’s always worth it & you walk out feeling better in both your energy levels too.

I turned up to teach this morning (not my feeling my best), yet it really cheered me up to teach both physically & mood wise, a bonus. The sun is shining here in the UK so hope you enjoy this weeks mini relax, helping you re charge your batteries, you deserve it. Say to yourself ‘my energy levels are improving’

Here’s this weeks Pilates have a lie down to improve posture, alignment, relax & release the muscles & de-stress, join in here:


Toning your Body with Pilates

Most people book into Pilates because of some back problem, ache or pain. A brilliant added bonus is that Pilates exercise is also very toning and the good news is that you don’t have to go up to advanced level to get very toned with it. 

Even working your body from beginners to intermediate level is plenty to get toned, but this isn’t about doing Pilates just once a week. Is that enough? Well it will help but on the benefits side of things & getting really toned with it it’s all about the magic word PRACTICE. Regular practice builds strength & tone which is such a good feeling with Pilates that you can both feel & look good with it too. 

Doing a regular class or one to one is ideal but it’s also all about practicing inbetween your lessons which you may find enhances your entire life. 

The thing is you need to get a balance, even if you’re needing extra strengthening for your back you still need to work on your whole body, that’s what Pilates can do for you 

I used to do SO much sport as a child, playing national junior squash, tennis, a runner and all sorts. However it wasn’t until I discovered Pilates that I sorted out my bad posture (stooped and rounded shoulders from being a shy child). I’d ended up with a weak back & a lot of tightness in my neck & shoulders. I will be honest the other exercise I did was great for cardiovascular fitness but not so good for toning so it was a big happy surprise to me when o became more toned as a result. 

Even practicing 5 or more minutes a day can make such a difference 

Stretch your back here with the best daily stretch : 


Above- side to side stretch.


Work at your level & listen to your body. Join in here if injury free, always best to learn with a qualified teacher.

Lots of Love,

Beverley